This puts life and love in great perspective.
Even makes sense that lovers who are apart spend most of their time thinking about each other as it says, absence makes the heart grow fonder. ~ Elaine Zacarias
Sometimes you have to be apart from them because you need to love yourself more. It all comes down to loving yourself before you can love others.
If you really love someone you should be there for them when they need you. However, if they are toxic to your nature and are too negative much of the time being apart is a matter of peace of mind, which we all need in this dysfunctional world. ~ Victoria Mack